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by Mary Rogers. Spicely illustrated by Mig.
Life after death for the older lady. If you are looking for a politically correct, objective view of how to cope with bereavement – do NOT buy this book!
Mary Rogers writes with candour and humour, in a deeply personal style. She manages to be funny, moving and at the same time, practical.
This is a book about coming to terms with widowhood after the shock of bereavement has begun to ease.
Mary says . . . I am writing this in my first year of living alone. Although there have been times when I would have given the rest of my life for five minutes in his arms, there is a positive side to being single again and losing a husband sometimes means finding oneself.
Chapters include: Farewell Loneliness; Hello Friends; Keeping Your Status; Couples, Romance And Sex; The Meaning Of Loss; Feeling Safe; Go For Comedy ~ Go For Culture; Solo Housekeeping; Food Glorious Food; Going Places; Someone For The Weekend, Madam? and, Moving On Mary Rogers also addresses the widow’s all-important skill . . . the ability to say ‘No’.
Mig’s illustrations add just the right amount of spice to Mary Roger’s food for thought.
166 pages ISBN 1 898576 20 4
PRAISE FROM A READER
I have just read “How to be a Merry Widow”, having been recommended by another “Merry Widow” I bumped into whilst embarking on my first holiday alone in Guernsey.
I was very much inspired by the book and found I could relate to almost every page. I am approaching the two year mark and have experienced all the ups and downs. Now feeling more confident and positive, I am constantly testing myself, and those around me, to tackle new challenges and experiences that I never thought I would have to. I am a lot stronger than I thought I was and life is good – as you say “I am finding myself”.
I realise that sitting at home, feeling sorry myself (even though it happens from time to time) is a pointless waste of time. There is a new adventure round every corner. So on with the next chapter of my life – many thanks for your encouragement.
Regards, Margaret